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CONSIDER THESE TO FIND A LIFE PARTNER
You could say ....
▶ My marriage will last forever.
▶ I will get married when the Lord comes and I will find a better husband.
▶ Divorce is not a curse it is a chance to receive the intended GOD.
▶ My children will be godly and intelligent.
▶ No one despises my youth because I have the power to act, I have the power to defeat the devil and I have a good mind to make plans for my life.
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▶ I will get married for a beautiful wedding. I will buy good shawls, good shoes I will go to a good salon and good maids I will have, I will marry a good husband. Even though I currently have no boyfriend but I know one thing, "I'm not just an escort".
▶ My happiness does not come from man so GOD is my true comforter.
▶ I am the best but I do not compare myself with others because my quality is unique which God has set for a specific purpose.
▶ I am beautiful in a unique way that God has set for a specific purpose. Even if there are people who will see that I am not attracted to them I know I am attracted to those whom God intended for a purpose.
Let me tell you: if a person sees that you do not fit the meaning and he does not fit you also do not bother, get up and move forward you will meet the intended one who will see you fit.
Take care of your tongue is a small organ but it creates big ones.
‼ Men their turn tomorrow!
Recognize Yourself, Appreciate Yourself, Do Not Be Afraid!
* MARRIAGE is an honor for a woman *
That respect goes a long way toward affecting the parents of the daughter who is to marry. Parents walk the chest forward when their daughter gets married, and they are even happier when she gets married while still unborn.
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They thank God for their daughter to take care of herself. They thank the daughter for giving them respect in their family and that is why on the day of the send off the parents are very happy to say goodbye to their daughter with respect.
The situation is so intense that many beauties are desperate to get married. Many are touched by the records of fellow women who have taken care of themselves and ultimately brought honor to their parents.
On the contrary, many have found themselves blaming themselves for their failure to bring honor to their families. The daughter is getting older, she wants to get married but she can't find anyone to marry her. Or else it happens, she longs to get married but ends up getting pregnant and divorced.
Instead of bringing honor, she brings shame on her family due to our traditions and customs of asking a daughter to give birth only when she is married. She will give birth when she is with her husband and not otherwise. When an accident occurs then it is immediate and not childbirth and childbearing tablet.
Although marriage is God's plan, have you ever wondered what qualities marriage mates have? Why are men attracted to them? What extra thing do they have that some women don’t have? Today I will tell you!
Guys, the first quality a woman should have is the quality of being a wife. Most men like to live with a woman who has the qualities of being a wife. When I say the qualities of being a wife I mean a woman who will be willing to raise her husband and even children.
A woman who will be supportive of her husband when he has various challenges including life and illness. A woman who will know the value of a husband, who will know what respect means to her husband.
A woman who will cope with life's pressures including bankruptcy, dismissal and other similar hardships. A woman will want to wear the reputation of being a wife in the sense of caring for her husband when he returns tired from work.
Married people are also the ones who know the decline when they see there is a misunderstanding. Those women who know how to get rid of the tiredness of life man. A woman who does not cause frequent noises in the ear drums of a man.
A woman who has no guts. A woman will understand that marital union is two-sided so care for both parties, her siblings and her husband's side. A woman who will have the appearance of a wife in the sense of dress and even conversation.
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Married couples have a reputation for perseverance. They become God-fearing. A God-fearing woman, she begs him to give her a godly man and it really happens. There is a great mystery in praying to God that most of us do not know but it is good to put Him first in everything.
If you have those qualities, even if you do not have the appearance of a cutie or have a pipe shep as modern teenagers say, you will only get married and those are the qualities of a woman who wants to get married!
At the end of the article thank you for being with me from beginning to end for the ongoing articles.
Swahili
ZINGATIA HAYA KUPATA MWENZI WA MAISHA
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Unaweza kusema....
▶ Ndoa yangu itadumu ktk furaha hata iweje.
▶ Nitaolewa wakati wa Bwana ukifika na nitapata mume bora .
▶ Kuachika sio laana ni nafasi ya kumpokea aliyekusudiwa na MUNGU.
▶Watoto wangu watakuwa wacha Mungu na wenye akili njema.
▶ Hakuna mtu wa kudharau ujana wangu kwa sababu nina nguvu za kutenda kazi ,nina nguvu za kumshinda shetani na nina akili njema ya kuweka mipango ya maisha yangu.
▶ Nitaolewa kwa harusi nzuri. Nitanunua shela zuri, viatu vizuri nitaenda saluni nzuri na maids wazuri nitakuwa nao, nitaolewa na mume mzuri. Hata kama kwa sasa sina mchumba lakini najua jambo moja, " mimi sio msindikizaji tu".
▶ Furaha yangu haitoki kwa mwanadamu kwa hiyo MUNGU ndio mfariji wangu wa kweli.
▶ Mimi ni bora lakini sijilinganishi na wengine kwa sababu ubora wangu ni wa kipekee ambao Mungu ameuweka kwa kusudi maalum.
▶ Mimi ni mzuri kwa namna ya kipekee ambayo Mungu ameiweka kwa kusudi maalum. Hata kama kuna watu wataona siwavutii najua nawavutia waliokusudiwa na Mungu kwa ajili ya kusudi.
Acha nikwambie: kama mtu anaona hufai maana yake na yeye hakufai pia usijitaabishe, inuka usonge mbele utakutana na yule aliyekusudiwa ambaye ataona unafaa.
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Chunga ulimi wako ni kiungo kidogo lakini kinaumba makubwa.
‼Wanaume zamu yao kesho!
Jitambue, Jithamini, Usiogope!
*KUOLEWA ni heshima kwa mwanamke*
Heshima hiyo inaenda mbali zaidi hadi kuwagusa wazazi wa binti ambaye ataolewa. Wazazi wanatembea kifua mbele pindi binti yao anapoolewa, tena wanafurahia zaidi binti huyo anapoolewa akiwa angali bado hajazaa.
Wanamshukuru Mungu kwa binti yao kujitunza. Wanamshukuru binti kwa kuwapa heshima katika familia yao na ndiyo maana siku ya sherehe ya kuagwa (send off) wazazi wanafurahi sana kuagana na binti yao kwa heshima.
Hali hiyo huwa inaleta shauku kubwa kwa warembo wengi kutamani kuingia kwenye ndoa. Wengi wanaguswa na rekodi za wanawake wenzao ambao wamejitunza na hatimaye kuwaletea heshima wazazi wao.
Kinyume chake, wengi wamejikuta wakijilaumu kwa kushindwa kuleta heshima katika familia zao. Binti umri unaenda, anatamani kuingia kwenye ndoa lakini hapati wa kumuoa. Au mwingine inatokea, anatamani kuolewa lakini anaishia kupigwa mimba na kuachwa.
Badala ya kuleta heshima, analeta aibu katika familia yake kutokana na mila na desturi zetu kumtaka binti azae pale tu atakapokuwa ameolewa. Azae pale atakapokuwa kwa mumewe na si vinginevyo. Inapotokea bahati mbaya basi ni mara moja na si kuzaa na kuzaa watoto kibao.
Pamoja na kuwa ndoa ni mpango wa Mungu lakini hivi umeshawahi kujiuliza wanaolewa wanakuwa na sifa gani? Kwa nini wanaume wanavutiwa nao? Wanakuwa na kitu gani cha ziada ambacho wanawake wengine hawana? Leo nitakuambia!
Jamani, sifa ya kwanza ambayo mwanamke anapaswa kuwa nayo ni ile hulka ya kuwa mke. Wanaume wengi huwa wanapenda kuishi na mwanamke ambaye ana ile sifa ya kuwa mke. Ninaposema sifa ya kuwa mke naamisha mwanamke ambaye atakuwa tayari kumlea mume na hata watoto.
Mwanamke ambaye atakuwa msaada kwa mwanaume wake pindi atakapokuwa na changamoto mbalimbali ikiwemo za maisha pamoja na maradhi. Mwanamke ambaye atajua thamani ya mume, ambaye atajua nini maana ya heshima kwa mumewe.
Mwanamke ambaye atamudu misukosuko ya maisha ikiwemo kufilisika, kuachishwa kazi na mengine magumu yanayofanana na hayo. Mwanamke ataka-yevaa sifa ya kuwa mke kwa maana ya kumhudumia mumewe pindi atakaporudi amechoka kutoka kazini.
Wanaoolewa ni wale pia ambao wanajua kushuka pindi wanapoona kumetokea kutoelewana. Wanawake wale ambao wanajua kumtoa uchovu wa maisha mwanaume. Mwanamke ambaye hasababishi makelele ya mara kwa mara kwenye ngoma za masikio ya mwanaume.
Mwanamke ambaye hana gubu. Mwanamke atakayeelewa kwamba muunganiko wa ndoa una pande mbili hivyo kuwajali ndugu wa pande zote mbili, ndugu zake na ndugu wa upande wa mumewe. Mwanamke ambaye atakuwa na muonekano wa mke kwa maana ya mavazi na hata mazungumzo.
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Wanaoolewa jamani wanakuwa na sifa ya uvumilivu. Wanakuwa na hofu ya Mungu. Mwanamke mwenye hofu ya Mungu, anamuomba yeye ampatie mwanaume mcha Mungu na kweli inatokea. Kuna siri kubwa sana katika kumuomba Mungu ambayo wengi wetu hatuijui lakini ni vyema kumtanguliza yeye katika kila jambo.
Ukiwa na sifa hizo, hata kama hautakuwa na muonekano wa kimisi au kuwa na shepu bomba kama wanavyosema vijana wa kisasa, utaolewa tu na hizo ndizo sifa za mwanamke anayetaka kuolewa!
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