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WHEN MARRIAGE ARRIVES HERE TAKE CARE+NDOA IKIFIKA HAPA CHUKUA TAHADHARI

MAHABA Jumatano, Mei 19, 2021


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WHEN MARRIAGE ARRIVES HERE TAKE CARE

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Often when a man finds a woman he begins to feel like he doesn't need her anymore, he doesn't need to do the same things he used to do to her before he seduced her. He sees that he has arrived so he decides to change, to be proud and to think he is not going anywhere. Maybe I should tell you one thing, you can see she is not going anywhere but women are very tolerant, she will tolerate everything, she will try everything but a woman who is tired of you can even poison you to be free from your hands.

What I mean here is, if a woman gets tired of you she will just leave, she will look for the exit door and she will not turn back, you can imagine even if she leaves I am not looking for another one, first your many women Yes it is very easy to find another, there are more than us, but it is very difficult to find someone who will love you, who will appreciate you, you may find yourself growing from one woman to another.

You will find comfort in the beginning but there is something called age, this is accompanied by his brother who is called responsibilities. If these people sit together and start harassing you then even if you bring a hundred women and put them in front of you you will not desire them because the mind will be worn out. Yes, after a while the youth will be gone, the friends who accompany them to eat duck will grow up to be adults and avoid you because you have no direction.

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Now there is a person called responsibilities he will freeze and you will not believe, you have all six children Different mothers, at first it is not very difficult but once they start school you will find yourself working like cheese and they will confuse you. Now you will not say I leave their mothers, just be lucky to meet a mother who knows how to raise, if she is also a headache then you will be confused. But even if you meet someone who knows how to raise my brother, you will find yourself being raised by other men.

Yes, with the woman working but there is another man taking care of her, it may not be straightforward but if she is bought clothes by another man then that is the amount of clothes she uses to raise her children. Yes, age will not stop you, you will grow old with no direction, you have decided to settle down the older children do not want to grow up you abandoned them, now the younger ones you gave birth to and the new wife you have decided to settle down with are a headache.

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You are 55 years old but the first married child then has not stopped wearing Pampas. Yes it is easy to leave a woman who loves you but living without her is harder than you think so before you pretend to be a man and start humiliating women then ask yourself what kind of life do I want to live? If you want to be a happy and successful man, look for a woman who will make a living and respect you!

Swahili 

NDOA IKIFIKA HAPA CHUKUA TAHADHARI

Mara nyingi mwanaume akishampata mwanamke huanza kuhisi kama hamhitaji tena, hahitaji kumfanyia mambo yale amabyo alikua akimfanyia kabla ya kumtongoza. Anaona amefika hivyo kuamua kuabdilika, kuwa kiburi na kuwaza haendi popote. Labda nikuambie kitu kimoja, unaweza kuona kama haendi popote lakini wanawake ni wavumilivu sana, atavumilia kila kitu, atajaribu kila kitu lakini mwanamke akikuchoka anaweza hata kukuwekea sumu ili kuwa huru kutoka katika mikono yako.

Ninachomaanisha hapa nikuwa, mwanamke akikuchoka ataondoka tu, atatafuta mlango wa kutokea na hatageuka nyuma, unaweza kuwaza hata akiondoka si natafuta mwingine, kwanza wanawake wako wengi. Ndiyo ni rahisi sana kutafuta mwingine, wako wengi kuliko sisi, lakini ni vigumu sana kupata ambaye atakupenda, ambaye atakuthamini, unaweza kujikuta unakua mtu wa kutoka mwanamke mmoja kwenda mwingine.

Utaona raha mwanzoini lakini kuna kitu kinaitwa umri, hiki huongozana na ndugu yake amabye anaitwa majukumu. Hawa watu wakikaa pamoja na wakianza kukusumbua basi hata ukiletewa wanawake mia ukawekewa mbele yako hutawatamani kwani akili itakua imechakaa. Ndiyo baada ya muda ujana utaisha, wale marafiki wa kuongozana nao kula bata watakua washakua watu wazima wanakukwepa kwakua huna uelekeo.

Sasa kuna mtu anaitwa majukumu atakuganda na hutaamini, una watoto sita wote Mama tofauti tofauti, mwanzoni si ngumu sana lakini wakishaanza shule utajikuta unafanya kazi kama chizi na watakuchanganya. Sasa si utasema nawaachia Mama zao, uwe tu na bahati ya kukutana na Mama ambaye anajua kulea, kama nayeye ni umiza kichwa basi utachanganyikiwa. Lakini hata kama utakutana na anayejua kulea ndugu yangu utajiona fala wanao kulelewa na wanaume wengine.

Ndiyo pamoja na huyo mwanamke kufanya kazi lakini kuna mwanaume mwingine analea, inaweza isiwe moja kwa moja lakini kama ananunuliwa nguo na mwanaume mwingine basi ile hela ya nguo ndiyo anatumia kulea wanao. Ndiyo umri nao utakua haukuachi, utazeeka huna uelekeo, umeamua kutulia watoto wakubwa hawakutaki kwakua uliwatelekeza, sasa wale wadogo uliozaa na mke mpya ambaye umaemua kutulia naye ni umiza kichwa.


Una miaka 55 lakini mtoto wa ndani ya ndoa wa kwanza basi hajaacha kuvaa Pampas. Yes nirahisi kumaucha mwanamke anayekupenda lakini kuishi bila yeye ni vigumu kuliko unavyodhani hivyo kabla ya kujifanya kidume na kuanza kudhalilisha wanawake hembu jiulize je nataka kuishi maisha ya aina gani? Kama unataka kuwa mwanaume mwenye furaha na mwenye mafanikio tafuta mwanamke ambaye mtatengeneza maisha na mheshimu!

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